(This one will be a bit philosophical - especially because it is also written on the day that Ilan started kindergarten.)
It's really hard to believe that Ilan is five. He was just a baby. The transformation from baby to little boy to just boy has been so gradual that I almost didn't notice it happening. On his birthday Ilan asked if he was taller now that he is 5. I had to explain that you grow a little bit all the time and that it's gradual. Of course it's this way with his development. Every once in a while I think back and wonder "Were we able to talk with Ilan about this a year ago?" or "Could he do that a year ago?" I just don't remember some of the progress. Then I get blown away by something he says or does.
Ilan loves pink. He often asks for toys in pink or chooses the pink option when given a choice. I'm pretty sure every man reading this is made a little nervous by that fact, but it's just a color.
He earned his yellow belt in Tang Soo Do this year. Since he has started karate we have seen him go from the youngster who liked to be a clown to a (more) serious student who is growing in skill.
He likes to be good at things. So, when something doesn't come easily or naturally or is a little scary he really doesn't want to try it. I can relate. This is an area where we have had to help stretch him. He's been challenged to go down the pole (which he now loves), sound out words, ride thunder mountain (which he also loves), catching a ball with his glove etc. It's a challenge to know what to push and what to leave alone.
He loves to play games. Favorites include Candyland, Uno (Handy Manny Version), Chutes and Ladders, and Trouble. He tries to be a good sport, but usually if he doesn't win he wants to know if you won for him. Sure. Why not.
He loves people. He loves being around people and interacting with them. He plays rough, but usually has the best of intentions. It's sweet to see him rescue other kids who are in need of help and he plays very sweetly with younger children (excluding that which is his brother) and can be very thoughtful. He's also very sensitive.
He is a quality time guy. A little undivided attention goes a long way.
He loves sports and the outdoors.
He has a bit of a shoe fetish.
It's been so much fun to see how his mind works and watch him grow and reach goals. I love our little philosophical conversations, his curiosity and zest for life. Love this big boy and can't wait to see how he changes in the year to come!
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| Ilan on my chest in the hospital |
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| Around just before his first birthday - he still has some of the red, but not enough hair for curls. |
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| Celebrating his 2nd birthday in Naples. |
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| Waiting for birthday cake. |
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| Celebrating his 4th at Jumpin' and Jammin' |
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| On the birthday choo choo train. |
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